After looking at the diagrams, in theory, at least, this cannot be happening
Power goes into the ignition switch from a fusible link. When the key is in Run, it goes to the ecm-ign fuse. When it is in Start, it goes to the starter solenoid and the ecm-ign fuse at the same time.
the solenoid is not pulling any power thru the ecm -fuse because it is on the front side of the fuse.
So much for theory, I guess.
The solenoid is the purple wire coming out of the ignition switch, goes thru the bulkhead connector, and goes to the solenoid. If the purple wire, under the dash, has a bare spot in it and the wire going to the ecm from the fuse had a bare spot in it...then the current draw from the solenoid would pull some from the fuse and probably pop it. I would think this is highly unlikely.
More likely, would be under the hood where the purple wire comes out of the firewall and runs across to the starter. I have seen cases where the wiring bundle comes out of the firewall bulkhead and it forks-----this bundle is held up in the air by a stand off that goes over the valve cover stud. When this plastic stand off breaks the wiring bundle drops down until is laying on the valve cover...and that allows it to lay on top of the end of a long screw that comes thru the firewall...I think this screw is one of the accelerator pedal bracket screws.
The harness rubs on the threads of the screw and saws thru the insulation. This can cause some really strange things like blown fuses, blown fusible links and cross circuited connections etc. It is hard to see this screw but you can put your fingers behind the wiring harness and feel it..or pull the harness forward and see it. Sticks out a fair distance.
At that point, you have wires from the maf, esc module, ignition module and a couple of jillion more.
I think I would look at that point and make sure the wiring bundle is not laying on that screw.
I would also be sure the battery had a full charge on it so it does not force things to pull more current than normal
If you don't find a problem with the wiring and the effing screw...discon
nect the purple wire from the starter solenoid and see if it still pops the fuse when you hit start.