As you have a single speed fan, it's easy. Just take the low speed relay that is triggered by the ecm and take the output from the relay and connect it to the fan. When the temp that is programmed into the chip is reached, the ecm will trigger the relay and turn the fan on.
Ignore the delay relay and the high speed relay if you are running a single fan.
If you have the factory wiring, power to the relay will be thru a fusible link. If you don't have the factory fan wiring, then a feed off the battery thru a 50 amp maxi fuse will suffice.